Healing Hearts: Rebuilding Trust After Infidelity
A clinician‑developed, step‑by‑step 90‑day path for repair and reconnection.
- Daily, bite‑sized healing steps
- Joint + solo activities
- Check‑ins that unlock next lessons
- Tools to rebuild safety and trust
90 structured lessons, weekly reviews, and app‑supported check‑ins. Includes scripts, prompts, and progress tracking.
Is This Program Right for You? ❤️🩹
This Healing Hearts program is designed for couples who:
- Are recovering from an affair or breach of trust and want a guided path to safety and honesty. 🔒
- Feel stuck in cycles of defensiveness, withdrawal, or reactivity and need calm, repeatable repair steps. 🔄
- Want clear daily actions (not just ideas) to reduce triggers and rebuild connection. ⏱️✅
- Prefer a brain-based, skills-first approach that can complement therapy or pastoral care. 🧠🤝
- Are ready to practice transparency, reassurance, and accountability—consistently. 🧭
- Need practical tools for tough moments: check-ins, pause/reset, and repair conversations. 🧰💬
- Believe the relationship can heal with structure, compassion, and time. 🌱
If you’re committed to rebuilding trust and creating a new story together, this program is for you. ❤️🩹
FAQs
How is this different from the Romance program?
Healing Hearts focuses specifically on trust injuries and affair recovery—stabilizing triggers, increasing transparency, and guiding structured repair conversations.
Do we both need to participate?
It works best when both partners engage. One partner can start and invite the other in; the material supports that ramp-up.
How much time does it take?
Plan for 5–15 minutes per day, plus one longer weekly check-in (30–45 minutes) using the guided scripts.
Is this therapy?
No. It’s a clinician-developed self-help curriculum. Many couples use it alongside individual or couples therapy.
Will this guarantee we stay together?
No program can promise outcomes. It provides a proven structure and tools; results depend on your consistent practice.
When do we start?
Immediately after purchase and consent. Your Welcome page will guide you to Day 1.
What if we get triggered or stuck?
The lessons include trigger protocols, time-outs, and de-escalation scripts so you can pause, reset, and re-engage safely.
Refund policy?
As stated in the consent: No refunds after 3 days of using this product.
💖 Reignite Love. Deepen Connection. Build a Marriage That Lasts.
A 90-Day NORM-R™ Romance Rewiring Program
- A clear, brain-based roadmap for closeness and trust
- Daily To-Do’s that turn insight into loving action
- Tools for calm communication and fast repairs
- Practices that reignite romance and desire
- Progress tracking and accountability to keep momentum
✅ Simple daily habits • ✅ Brain-based tools • ✅ A supportive path to lasting love
The 7 Stages of NORM-R™ (Your 90-Day Path)
- Recognize — See what’s really happening
Spot the patterns—distance, criticism, withdrawal—and name their impact. - Reveal — Share honestly, safely
Practice guided disclosures and feeling language to rebuild emotional openness. - Reframe — Shift the story
Replace blame loops with growth mindsets and solution framing. - Rewire — Install new habits
Daily To-Do’s: micro-repairs, appreciation reps, check-ins, and boundary rituals. - Reinforce — Make it stick
Consistency challenges, gratitude cues, and celebration reps to anchor change. - Reconnect — Rekindle intimacy
Structured touch, quality-time scripts, and desire-building practices. - Reimagine — Design your future
Craft a shared vision, rhythms, and rituals for a love that lasts.
What’s Included (90 Days)
- Weekly coaching structure with stage-matched lessons & challenges
- Daily To-Do’s (5–10 minutes) to build automatic loving habits
- Romancier App access (at launch): TouchPoints, connection tools, and progress tracking
- Community & support with like-minded couples (optional)
- Ambassador Couples pathway to inspire others (and earn) after graduation
Love isn’t luck — it’s a skill. We’ll show you how to build it.
Is This Program Right for You?
This program is for couples who:
- Feel distant, stuck in negative cycles, or “roommate mode.”
- Want daily, doable habits that rebuild safety, trust, and desire.
- Are ready to replace defensiveness and criticism with curiosity and empathy.
- Prefer a clear, brain-based roadmap instead of guessing what to try next.
- Want accountability and momentum without weekly therapy sessions.
If you can give 10 minutes a day for 90 days, you can rewire your relationship.
FAQs
How long does it take each day?
Most lessons take 5–10 minutes. The point is consistency, not intensity.
Do we both need to participate?
It works best when both partners engage, but one partner can start and invite the other in.
Is this therapy?
No. It’s a clinician-developed self-help program focused on daily rewiring habits. It can complement therapy.
When do we start?
Immediately after purchase and consent. Your Welcome page guides you to Day 1.
What if we miss a day?
No problem. The check-in system helps you resume without losing momentum.
What’s the cost?
A one-time payment of $599 for the full 90-day program and 12 months of support resources.
Refund policy?
As stated in the consent: No refunds after 3 days of using this product.
Reawakening Intimacy: A 90-Day NORM™ Romance Rewiring Journey
A neuroscience-based, faith-integrated program to restore desire, emotional closeness, and marital intimacy from the inside out.
- Restore emotional safety, desire, and closeness
- Transform the neurological patterns that block intimacy
- Follow a clear, therapist-guided 90-day rewiring plan
- Strengthen your emotional bond and communication
- Develop habits that nurture affection and connection
- Experience faith-integrated intimacy healing
- Includes monthly group therapy session upgrade option
- Qualification-based 30-Day Breakthrough Guarantee
🌸 What’s Included in Your Program
- 13 Therapist-Guided Lessons
Understand exactly why your intimacy changed and how to repair it. - Daily Connection Exercises & Micro-Practices
Simple, powerful brain-rewiring activities to nurture desire and safety. - Faith-Integrated Reflections
Invite God’s healing presence into your marital intimacy. - 10 Core Relationship Skills
Build the emotional reflexes that support connection for life. - Progress Tracking & Check-In Portal
Watch your emotional closeness, safety, and desire evolve week by week. - Optional Monthly Group Therapy Upgrade
Get direct support, accountability, and guidance from Joe Follette Jr., LMFT.
❤️ Who This Program Is For
This rewiring journey is ideal for couples experiencing:
- Emotional distance
- Sexual numbness or desire loss
- Pornography impact
- Post-conflict tension
- Old trauma affecting intimacy
- Low emotional safety or fear of rejection
- Long seasons of neglect
- Faith-based couples longing for unity and healing
If you desire renewed closeness, trust, and pleasure — emotionally, spiritually, and physically — this program brings all three back into alignment.
Frequently Asked Questions
Is this program only about sex?
No — sexual intimacy is the fruit of emotional, neurological, and relational safety. This program restores intimacy from the inside out.
Do both partners need to participate?
Yes. Rewiring intimacy requires both partners to engage in the exercises and reflection practices.
Will this feel like therapy?
The lessons are therapist-guided but self-paced. You can also upgrade for monthly group therapy support.
What if we are dealing with deep trauma or infidelity?
The program includes a qualification quiz. Couples not ready are routed into a Foundations Prep Track to ensure safety and healing.
What if we don’t see results?
If you qualify and complete the first 30 days as instructed but do not see measurable emotional improvement, you may request a refund under the Breakthrough Guarantee.
Inner Healing Journey
Rewiring Program for Intrusive Thoughts, Addictions, Self-Harm, Codependence & Emotional Dysregulation
- Break cycles of intrusive thoughts, addictions, self-harm, and codependence.
- Learn NORM-E emotional regulation tools to calm your mind and body.
- Heal inner-child wounds and rewrite painful internal narratives.
- Rebuild identity, boundaries, and spiritual/emotional grounding.
- Restore hope, resilience, and inner peace.
What’s Included
- 90–180 day structured Inner Healing curriculum.
- Therapist-designed NRP rewiring lessons & exercises.
- Guided journaling, trigger mapping, and emotional check-ins.
- Access to the Inner Healing Journey Daily Check-In form.
- Optional group/community support, depending on your cohort model.
Who It’s For
This program is ideal for individuals who struggle with intrusive thoughts, emotional spiraling, self-harm behaviors, addiction patterns, or codependent relationships — and are ready to pursue deep, faith-centered emotional healing and identity restoration.
FAQs
How long does the Inner Healing Journey last?
Most participants engage for 90–180 days depending on pace and level of support chosen.
Is this therapy?
This is an intensive, therapist-designed healing journey. It is educational and coaching-oriented and may complement therapy. It is not a replacement for individualized clinical treatment.
Do I have to share my story in a group?
You will always be invited, never forced. You can engage at the level that feels safe for you while still doing the inner work.
Romance Reboot
Deep Healing & Trauma Recovery for Couples
- Rebuild emotional safety after deep hurt, distance, or crisis.
- Heal betrayal, resentment, and long-standing relational trauma.
- Learn NRP rewiring tools to stop destructive patterns and conflict cycles.
- Restore trust, connection, and spiritual/emotional intimacy.
- Create a renewed, forward-focused vision for your marriage.
What’s Included
- 90–180 day Romance Reboot rewiring curriculum.
- Structured couple exercises and guided conversations.
- Assessment tools to track progress and emotional safety.
- Session prompts for therapy/coaching integration.
- Access to NRP check-ins and relationship tools as configured in your membership site.
Who It’s For
Designed for couples in deep pain — betrayal, emotional withdrawal, chronic conflict, or long-term disconnection — who are committed to doing the work to rebuild trust, intimacy, and safety in their marriage.
FAQs
Is this only for couples after affairs?
No. While it is powerful after betrayal or infidelity, Romance Reboot also serves couples facing deep resentment, emotional shutdown, or long-standing disconnection.
Do both partners have to participate?
Yes. This program is built for couples willing to do the work together.
Can this replace couples therapy?
It is designed to work alongside therapy or coaching. It is not a replacement for individualized clinical treatment.
Romance Enhancement Level 2
Advanced Relationship Mastery for Couples
- Deepen emotional and spiritual intimacy with advanced tools.
- Strengthen shared vision, rituals, and long-term connection habits.
- Enhance communication mastery and conflict recovery.
- Refine sexual, emotional, and spiritual closeness as a lifestyle.
- Move from ‘healthy’ to ‘exceptional’ in your marriage.
What’s Included
- 90-day advanced NRP Romance Enhancement curriculum.
- High-level couple exercises and mastery-level practices.
- Check-ins and progress tracking to solidify growth.
- Deeper integration of NORM-E emotional regulation in daily life.
- Tools to sustain momentum after earlier NRP work.
Who It’s For
Perfect for couples who have already completed foundational work (e.g., Reawakening or Level 1) and are ready to refine, deepen, and master their connection at a higher level of intimacy, purpose, and leadership.
FAQs
Do we need Level 1 first?
Level 1 or an equivalent foundational journey is strongly recommended so you can get the most out of Level 2.
Is this for couples in crisis?
No. Level 2 is for couples who are stable but want more depth, mastery, and intentional growth.
Sizzling Hot Marriage Prep
Premium Premarital Rewiring Experience
- Build a strong emotional, spiritual, and relational foundation before marriage.
- Learn communication, conflict, and intimacy tools that last a lifetime.
- Identify potential friction points and align expectations early.
- Strengthen spiritual unity and shared vision for your marriage.
- Enter marriage with clarity, confidence, and practical tools.
What’s Included
- Comprehensive premarital assessment and guided discussion topics.
- Structured modules on communication, conflict, intimacy, finances, and family systems.
- Exercises and date-night challenges to deepen connection.
- Faith-integrated content blending biblical wisdom and neuroscience.
- Completion certificate you can share with pastors/mentors.
Who It’s For
Designed for engaged or seriously dating couples who want more than a checklist premarital class — couples who desire a faith-centered, neuroscience-informed, and deeply practical preparation for a lifelong, sizzling hot marriage.
FAQs
Is this only for engaged couples?
No. It’s ideal for engaged couples, but also powerful for seriously dating couples discerning marriage.
Can we use this with our pastor or counselor?
Yes. This program can complement premarital counseling or church-based premarital requirements.
NRP Romance Masterclass
13-Week Live Group Coaching Experience for Couples
- Strengthen communication and emotional safety in 13 weeks.
- Learn NORM-R/NORM-E skills in a supportive group environment.
- Practice weekly connection exercises with your partner.
- Receive live guidance, Q&A, and encouragement from a therapist-led framework.
- Get a taste of the full NRP system before deeper programs.
What’s Included
- 13 weekly live group sessions (or structured lesson releases) with teaching and guided exercises.
- Weekly homework and connection assignments for couples.
- Access to session replays (if enabled) and support materials.
- Group-based encouragement and shared testimony of growth.
- Discounted pathways into deeper NRP programs.
Who It’s For
Ideal for couples who want structured support and skill-building without yet committing to a full 90-day intensive. Great for couples wanting to grow, reconnect, or prepare for deeper NRP work.
FAQs
Is this program live?
Yes, the core masterclass is delivered weekly (live or scheduled), with structured lessons and exercises.
Do we have to be in crisis?
No. Many couples join simply to improve communication, deepen connection, and build healthy relational habits.
