Welcome to the NORM-Romance Rewiring Assessment™

This is more than a quiz—it’s a personalized roadmap to romantic fulfillment. Developed by licensed marriage and family therapist Joe Follette, Jr. M.Div., M.S., this assessment helps you identify exactly where you are on your growth journey and what supports will move you forward.

You’ll gain clarity in the following areas:

• Your readiness to rewire your relationship

• Emotional regulation and personal healing capacity

• Focus and prioritization in your love life

• Uncovering patterns that block intimacy

• Identifying your couple, listener, and romance archetypes

• Matching with personalized tracks for healing or growth

Instructions:

• There are 6 sections. The first 3 use a 1–5 scale:

  • 1 = Strongly Disagree

  • 5 = Strongly Agree

• Please answer honestly—there are no right or wrong answers.

• This is a private assessment. Your results will never be shared without consent.

Once complete, you’ll receive your Romance Readiness Profile, which includes recommended growth tracks, access levels, and your current stage in the rewiring process.

Let’s get started with your name and email.