Description
After betrayal, couples often want to repair—but their nervous systems won’t let them.
Healing Hearts: Regulating After Betrayal is for couples in the Distress phase, where anger, panic, grief, hypervigilance, or shutdown dominate daily interactions—even when both partners want healing.
This program uses NORM-R™ neuro-relational principles to help couples stabilize emotionally so trust repair can begin safely and sustainably.
What You’ll Learn
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Why betrayal keeps triggering intense emotional reactions
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How trauma disrupts connection and communication
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How to regulate emotions without suppressing them
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How to rebuild emotional safety without forcing trust
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How to interrupt destructive cycles before they escalate
What’s Included
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Trauma-informed education on betrayal and attachment
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Emotional regulation tools for both partners
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Nervous system stabilization practices
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Structured communication for hard conversations
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Ongoing guidance for determining readiness for deeper work
Duration: 8 weeks
Format: Self-paced digital program
This program is ideal if:
Emotions feel unmanageable, conversations escalate quickly, or the relationship feels fragile despite a desire to heal.
Other tiers are for:
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Tension → If understanding the process is still the main need
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Crisis Intensive → If regulation tools aren’t holding or trauma symptoms persist