Description
Featuring the Prepare–Enrich Marital Relationship Assessment
Prepare to build a marriage that is emotionally secure, spiritually grounded, and neurologically rewired for lasting connection.
Sizzling Hot Marriage Prep blends the legacy spark of SHM with the deep transformation of the NORM-R (Neurobehavioral Operant Rewiring Method for Relationships)—your science-based, faith-centered system for rewiring the habits, patterns, and emotional cycles that shape a couple’s future.
Designed for engaged couples, seriously dating partners, or anyone discerning long-term commitment, this 12-lesson, 90-day journey integrates structured NORM-R rewiring practices with the world-renowned Prepare–Enrich Assessment to give you a precise, personalized roadmap for lifelong love.
You won’t just prepare for marriage.
You’ll repattern your relationship at the root—communication, emotional safety, expectations, intimacy, and generational patterns—so your future is built on clarity, alignment, and mutual growth.
🧠 NORM-R + Prepare–Enrich: Your Relationship Rewiring Blueprint
At the core of this program is the synergy between:
🧩 The Prepare–Enrich Assessment
A globally trusted, research-based tool that evaluates:
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Relationship strengths
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Growth areas
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Communication & conflict styles
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Family-of-origin influences
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Expectations & shared goals
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Personality dynamics
🧬 The NORM-R Rewiring Method
Your assessment insights are translated into NORM-R’s emotional rewiring steps—helping you identify:
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Reactive patterns
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Attachment tendencies
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Overfunctioning or withdrawal roles
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Generational beliefs shaping your bond
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The habits that help or harm intimacy
Together, you get a customized rewiring plan that reveals how your relationship actually functions—and how to strengthen it for marriage.
📘 Course Overview
This isn’t a typical premarital program.
It is an evidence-based transformation system, guiding you through:
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Communication mastery
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Compatibility confirmation
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Emotional safety & vulnerability
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Intimacy mindset development
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Spiritual and relational alignment
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Marriage readiness and commitment clarity
Each week we pair NORM-R lessons, real-life exercises, and Prepare–Enrich interpretation so you can understand your patterns and transform them in real time.
💡 What You’ll Gain (NORM-R Outcomes)
🧱 Building Credibility (NORM-R: Relational Integrity)
Establish honesty, transparency, and emotional steadiness as the foundation of your future marriage.
🔍 Confirmation of Compatibility (NORM-R: Recognize & Reimagine)
Use your assessment to reveal values alignment, expectation differences, and long-term relational fit.
🗣️ Compassionate Communication (NORM-R: Rewire Responses)
Learn how to regulate emotions, communicate with empathy, and resolve conflicts without escalation.
🤝 Creating a Supportive Community (NORM-R: Reinforce)
Build a network of mentors, models, and support structures that protect your relationship long-term.
📆 Cultivating Consistency (NORM-R: Ritualizing Habits)
Develop shared routines, rituals, and agreements that make love sustainable—not accidental.
🔥 Developing a Sizzle Mindset (SHM Signature Energy)
Integrate positivity, playfulness, and intentional romance that keeps the spark alive for decades.
📚 Course Structure
Each week includes:
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A Core NORM-R Relationship Lesson
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Prepare–Enrich interpretation & guided insights
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Interactive partner activities
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Practical rewiring exercises
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Shared and individual goal-setting
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Tools for emotional and spiritual alignment
You will finish with a high-resolution picture of your relationship—what is working, where you need growth, and how to move forward with confidence.
💍 Why Choose This Course?
Because this isn’t premarital counseling.
It’s premarital rewiring.
You get:
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A proven neuroscience-based framework
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A customized assessment roadmap
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A faith-centered process
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A relationship-specific rewiring plan
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Tools to decide wisely, build deeply, and love sustainably
Whether you’re preparing to say “I do” or discerning if this is the right person, this program gives you clarity, confidence, and the skills to build a sizzling, spiritually aligned, emotionally secure marriage.

